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Kevin Brennan

 

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Student Disengagement: What to Do When Students Feel Stupid in School?

 

Top 20s Develop Potential in Their Students and Themselves

 

Stages of Potential: Thinking, Learning and Communicating

 

“Top 20” = Effective TLC                  “Bottom 80” = Ineffective TLC

 

 

Top 20s Keep Stupid in the Box

 

  1. Equal Sign lets ‘stupid’ out of the box: ‘It means I am…’

 

  1. Reactions to Feeling Stupid:
  2. Withdraw: quit + quiet
  3. Pretend
  4. Emotional: embarrassed, angry, upset, sad, worry, nervous, stress
  5. Judgments: I’m not good enough; I don’t know anything; I’m bad at everything; I am stupid
  6. Attack: argue, swear, challenge, bully
  7. Defensive: judge (“This is stupid…you’re stupid.”)
  8. Motivate
  9. Numb: being numb is better than dumb

 

  1. 5 Causes of Stupid

 

  1. Called: stupid, dumb, idiot; laughed at; non-verbals

 

  1. Comparison: others are better; I’m not good enough

 

Comparison à Stupid                         Comparison à Learning

 

 

  1. Confusion: I don’t know; I don’t get it

 

Mountain of Learning: “I don’t get it.” à Confusion à “AHA, I get it.”

 

Confusion Rocks: Everything we know or can do today we were once confused about.

 

Confusion is a natural and necessary part of ALL learning.

 

  1. Can’t: failure, mistakes

 

  1. Certain situations: class, activity, needing help

 

 

 

  1. Unequal Sign: ‘It doesn’t mean I am…’

 

  1. Teacher Tips for Keeping Stupid in the Box:
  2. Initiate professional conversations among faculty to:

(1) become aware of stupid and                                                                                                                                                                              (2) consider ways to reduce student experiences of stupid.

  1. Make stupid part of the curriculum:                   (1) Share personal experiences of feeling stupid.                                                                                                                             (2) Teach the 5 causes of stupid.

(3) Explain how ‘comparison’ can lead to learning.                                                                                                                                      (4) Explain the importance of ‘confusion’ in learning.

(5) Stress the value of failure and mistakes to learning and growing.

  1. Be aware of when stupid might appear: (1) Have a large EQUAL SIGN in your room and refer to it in situations where someone                                                          might                be feeling stupid.

(2) Every few weeks ask students if they have felt stupid.

(3) Ask students if they have felt stupid by any of your verbal or nonverbal communication.

  1. Empower students with the UNEQUAL SIGN.
  2. Help students discover how they are smart.
  3. Practice the script: “I am smart. I just don’t understand ____ yet.”

“I am smart. I’m just confused about ____.”

“I am smart. I just can’t _____.”

 

 

 

 

TOP 20s PRACTICE KAIZEN: CONTINUAL IMPROVEMENT

 

Action Plan: What have you become aware of that you now want to…

 

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Top 20 Books:       Top 20 Teens: Discovering the Best-kept Thinking, Learning and Communicating Secrets of                                                                 Successful Teenagers                                                                                                                                                                                                   Top 20 Teachers: The Revolution in American Education
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                                    Why Students Disengage in American Schools and What We Can Do about It

 

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presenting Top 20 topics to students.

 

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